A House of Order

“Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning, a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God” (D&C 88:119).

Homeschooling is more than just doing school at home. It is a lifestyle. It encompasses the entire day, not just when we're doing math and phonics. Homeschooling is learning how to live with each other in a way that is uplifting and joyful, rather than stressful and frustrating.

I am NOT saying that I have it all figured out. Anyone that knows me and has been in my house is well aware of that fact. However, this is the goal and purpose that I have in mind. And, in fact, there are a few things I HAVE figured out that I'd like to share.

First things first: you have to have a clean and orderly house.
Both Isaac and I can wholeheartedly recommend Accountable Kids. Worth. Every. Cent.
My children keep the house clean. They have it down to an art now. The house can be COMPLETELY destroyed and they'll have it clean in about 20-30 min. I take care of cleaning the kitchen (because they aren't tall enough to reach the cabinets) and doing my own laundry/bedroom/bathroom. I don't have to yell, or threaten, or spank. And yes, I did all three of these as "motivation" before I found this awesome program. They get ready for the day in the morning & for bed at night, quickly, and without reminders. It has made such a difference in our home. Everyone is happier.

Second: Establish a routine.
Whatever it may be, make your day fairly predictable. Over time it becomes easier to get things done (like math or actually DOING school) when they know it is coming at the same time, every day, no exceptions. Of course, surprises are fun too. Don't forget those!

Third: Spiritual learning is more important than academics.
The BEST part of being home with your kids all day is how much time you have to teach them the gospel. Is that not the most important part of motherhood? Prayer, music, and scriptures are included throughout the day. These times are sweet and relaxing times (usually) when we feel the spirit and learn about Jesus. It is everyone's favorite time of the day.
Of course, it is not only WHAT we teach, however, but who we are through our daily (ALL day) example. Isaac and I have found that privately studying the Book of Mormon for 30 min. a day, as well as having daily personal prayer, has made all the difference. For me, reading the Book of Mormon helps me have the companionship of the Spirit, which brings peace of mind & heart, as well as a clear understanding, and feelings of love towards my family. VITAL to the daily grind of having your kids at home with you ALL. DAY. LOOOONNNNNGGGG. Instead it becomes a JOY rather than a chore.

And last but not least: QUIET TIME!!!!
1 hour, for sanity's sake. I just started doing this. Each kid goes to a different room for an hour. They take books to read or look at. Maddy likes to color for her quiet time. We are all separated from each other. WOW. Quiet time is one routine that is here to stay. Again: everyone is just happier when we have quiet time in our day. I highly recommend it!